Here’s some helpful articles when it comes to dealing with anger.
Resources from Rick Thomas
https://rickthomas.net/when-the-parents-anger-complicates-the-life-of-the-child/
https://rickthomas.net/what-is-righteous-anger/
https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-179-the-mysterious-interplay-of-fear-anger-and-self-reliance/
https://rickthomas.net/anger-alleviation-a-quest-to-be-god-a-case-study/
https://rickthomas.net/book-review-the-heart-of-anger-by-lou-priolo/
https://rickthomas.net/cheap-plates-can-overcome-anger/
Resources from Desiring God